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    <title>WANT &amp; NEED: Panama Hotel Project Investors and Developers</title>
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    <published>2008-07-28T16:51:47Z</published>
    <updated>2008-07-28T16:52:04Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Interested in hotel projects in a growing market with the 2nd highest occupancy rates in the world outside of the US? Consider Panama. The multi-billion dollar, multi-year expansion of the Panama Canal, the fact that is international banking center with...</summary>
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        <uri>http://www.eMarv.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[Interested in hotel projects in a growing market with the <a href="http://www.esenai.com/blog/creiZ/2008/07/panama_hotel_occupancy_rates_2nd_in_the_world_at_nearly_85.html">2nd highest occupancy rates in the world outside of the US</a>? Consider Panama. The multi-billion dollar, multi-year expansion of the Panama Canal, the fact that is international banking center with over 80 international banks and tourism are only a few reasons why the Hilton, Orient-Express and Marriott among others are starting or expanding their presence in Panama. Find out more about this opportunity by visiting the <a href="http://www.panamahotelinvestment.com/?n=&amp;s=Opportunistic_Investment_main_page">Panama Hotel Investment and Development Projects</a> page or <a href="mailto:mcorea@esenai.com?subject=Panama%20Hotel%20Investment">email</a> any specific questions.

We already have an interested investor for debt and equity and we are looking for more interested developers and investors.
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    <title>DNI Open Source Conference 2008, September 11-12, 2008 in Ronald Reagan Building in Washington DC</title>
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    <published>2008-07-28T15:58:55Z</published>
    <updated>2008-07-28T16:00:21Z</updated>
    
    <summary>In case you haven&apos;t seen this, here&apos;s info on the DNI Open Source Conference 2008. Best of all it&apos;s free if you are selected once you apply. I wonder if Chris Rasmussen will be presenting... The Office of the Director...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[In case you haven't seen this, here's info on the DNI Open Source Conference 2008. Best of all it's free if you are selected once you apply. I wonder if <a href="http://esenai.com/blog/intellipedia/2008/06/chris_rasmussen_intellipedia_superstar_interview.html">Chris Rasmussen</a> will be presenting...
<blockquote cite="http://www.dniopensource.org/">
The Office of the Director of National Intelligence is pleased to announce the "DNI Open Source Conference 2008" to be held on Thursday, 11 September and Friday, 12 September, 2008 at the Ronald Reagan Building and International Trade Center in Washington DC. The conference is free; however, all who wish to attend must register online in advance.The two-day conference will explore a wide range of open source issues and open source best practices for the Intelligence Community and its partners. We invite participants from the broader open source community of interest including academia, think tanks, private industry, federal, state, local and tribal entities, international partners, and the media to attend.</blockquote><cite cite="http://www.dniopensource.org/"><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/">DNI Open Source Conference 2008</a></cite>

<div style="margin-left: 40px;"><p>            The conference will include speakers from across the broader open source community            participating in panel discussions and focus group sessions. Updated information            about the            <a id="ctl00_ContentPlaceHolder1_LinkAgenda" href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Agenda.aspx">agenda</a>,            <a id="ctl00_ContentPlaceHolder1_HyperLink1" href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Speakers.aspx">speakers</a>,            and            <a id="ctl00_ContentPlaceHolder1_LinkSessions" href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Sessions.aspx">break-out sessions</a>            is now available.</p>            <span id="ctl00_ContentPlaceHolder1_Label_Speakers"><p>Confirmed Keynote Speakers Include:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Speakers.aspx#Allen"><strong>Mr. Charles Allen</strong></a>, Under Secretary for Intelligence and Analysis, Department of Homeland Security</li><li><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Speakers.aspx#Gaffney"><strong>Mr. Glenn Gaffney</strong></a>, Deputy Director of National Intelligence for Collection, Office of the Director of National Intelligence</li><li><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Speakers.aspx#Hayden,%20USAF"><strong>General Michael V. Hayden, USAF</strong></a>, Director, Central Intelligence Agency</li></ul></span>        <p>            The DNI Open Source Conference 2007 was held 16-17 July 2007 at the Ronald Reagan            Building and International Trade Center. More than 900 registered participants and            speakers attended. Presentations made at the conference break-out sessions are available            on the <a href="http://www.dniopensource2007.com/">DNI Open Source Conference 2007</a>            website.</p><p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Registration</span></p><p>Registration for the conference can only be completed online. All applications for            registration must be received no later than Thursday, 31 July 2008; early registration            is encouraged due to space limitations and demand.</p></div><p>After looking at the break-out sessions, it is unfortunate that below three will be held at the same time. All three look like interesting sessions:</p><table id="ctl00_ContentPlaceHolder1_DisplayAgenda" style="width: 424px; height: 64px;" border="0" cellpadding="5" cellspacing="3"><tbody><tr><td class="AgendaDescription" style="width: 75%;" valign="top"><li style="list-style-type: circle;"><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Sessions.aspx#a4351427-d38d-4537-92ea-e066f631bb18">The Convergence of Social Networks and New Technologies</a></li><li style="list-style-type: circle;"><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Sessions.aspx#9b5c765d-556f-4461-8f6b-8f32a86d79e1">Young Analysts Talk about the Value of Open Source</a></li><li style="list-style-type: circle;"><a href="http://www.dniopensource.org/Conference/Sessions.aspx#705d2974-c92f-4c51-a8d7-6b5c7ac2b7ae">Confronting the Counterintelligence Issues in Open Source</a></li></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/opensource%20conference%202008" rel="tag">opensource conference 2008</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/charlie%20allen" rel="tag">charlie allen</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/glenn%20gaffney" rel="tag">glenn gaffney</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/michael%20hayden" rel="tag">michael hayden</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/washington%20dc%20conference" rel="tag">washington dc conference</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/dni%20conference" rel="tag">dni conference</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/dni%20open%20source" rel="tag">dni open source</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/chris%20rasmussen" rel="tag">chris rasmussen</a></p><!-- technorati tags end -->]]>
        
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    <title>Interview with LinkedIn Networking Superstar Steven Burda or How does 500+ recommendations sound to you?</title>
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    <published>2008-07-24T00:05:56Z</published>
    <updated>2008-07-24T00:41:32Z</updated>
    
    <summary>I had the pleasure of interviewing Steven Burda and was thoroughly impressed with his giving nature towards networking. It&apos;s no wonder why he has over 25,000 (yes, that&apos;s thousand connections) and more impressively 500+ recommendations making him the 2nd most recommended person on LinkedIn. In the interview, Steven shares how he has achieved his status on LinkedIn, his philosophy about networking and his non-profit, Burda Consulting, which he does (as he states on his LinkedIn profile) &quot;at no-cost with no expectations in return.&quot; (Great guy, isn&apos;t he?) Enjoy the interview and make sure you connect with Steven and me on...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[I had the pleasure of interviewing Steven Burda and was thoroughly impressed with his giving nature towards networking. It's no wonder why he has over 25,000 (yes, that's thousand connections) and more impressively 500+ recommendations making him the 2nd most recommended person on LinkedIn.
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<img src="http://static.flickr.com/3150/2697247900_0981277430_m.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right;" title="Burda Consulting logo" alt="Burda Consulting logo" /> In the interview, Steven shares how he has achieved his status on LinkedIn, his philosophy about networking and his non-profit, Burda Consulting, which he does (as he states on his LinkedIn profile) "at no-cost with no expectations in return." (Great guy, isn't he?) 
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Enjoy the interview and make sure you connect with Steven and me on LinkedIn. 
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<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/burda">Steven Burda's profile</a> (it may take a while for his profile to load. 500+ recommendations take up a lot of space) 
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<a href="http://linkedin.esenai.com">Marvin Corea's profile</a> 

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Your comments are always welcome!
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    <title>Panama Hotel Occupancy Rates 2nd in the world at nearly 85%</title>
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    <published>2008-07-16T23:02:12Z</published>
    <updated>2008-07-28T16:45:10Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Perth had an occupancy rate of 85.1 percent, Deloitte said in a report released today. Next on the list, which tracks 7,800 hotels in 165 cities outside the U.S., was Panama with 84.7 percent followed by Dubai at 84.5 percent.Bloomberg.com:...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<blockquote cite="http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601081&amp;sid=aiTHIvsnXgag">Perth had an occupancy rate of 85.1 percent, Deloitte said in a report released today. Next on the list, which tracks 7,800 hotels in 165 cities outside the U.S., was Panama with 84.7 percent followed by Dubai at 84.5 percent.</blockquote><cite cite="http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601081&amp;sid=aiTHIvsnXgag"><a href="http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601081&amp;sid=aiTHIvsnXgag">Bloomberg.com: Australia &amp; New Zealand</a></cite>
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Wow! Everyone in Panama and that visits Panama kept telling me about the high occupancy rates. Now, I have proof, which will be useful as I am putting together a team for hotel development in Panama City.
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I've got a real estate investment banking firm interested and am looking for development partners and a brand (thinking Hilton since they have a small presence in Panama).
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Know of any companies that may be interested?
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UPDATE: The multi-billion dollar, multi-year expansion of the Panama Canal and the fact that is international banking center with over 80 international banks are only a couple of the reasons why the Hilton, Orient-Express and Marriott among others are starting or expanding their presence in Panama. You can find out more about Panama hotel investment and development projects by visiting the <a href="http://www.PanamaHotelInvestment.com/?s=creiZ.com_blog_post">Panama Hotel Investment and Development Projects</a> page or <a href="mailto:mcorea@esenai.com?subject=Panama%20Hotel%20Investment">email</a> any specific questions.
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    <title>Bailout - Tell me what isn&apos;t a bailout? or Lend the money to experienced rehabbers</title>
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    <published>2008-07-12T00:06:34Z</published>
    <updated>2008-07-12T00:07:27Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Another key point of dispute is $3.9 billion in the Senate measure for buying and rehabilitating foreclosed properties. The House&apos;s band of conservative &quot;Blue Dog&quot; Democrats opposes the money, arguing that it would swell the deficit unless paired with cuts...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<blockquote cite="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080711/ap_on_go_co/congress_housing">Another key point of dispute is $3.9 billion in the Senate measure for buying and rehabilitating foreclosed properties. The House's band of conservative "Blue Dog" Democrats opposes the money, arguing that it would swell the deficit unless paired with cuts or tax increases to cover the cost.

...

The White House singled out the money in its veto threat, calling it a bailout for lenders who helped cause the mortgage meltdown.
</blockquote><cite cite="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080711/ap_on_go_co/congress_housing"><a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080711/ap_on_go_co/congress_housing">Senate passes foreclosure rescue - Yahoo! News</a></cite>

I just read the above extract and story and article on Yahoo News and couldn't help but question: What isn't a bailout?

Depending on one's definition of bailout, any help that the government provides to anyone or company in a distressed situation could be considered a bailout. How can they single out something as a bailout is my question...

While I don't know that we'll solve the bailout debate, maybe a better solution (and not having read the Senate measure maybe it's already in there), why not offer some insured lending programs to experienced (emphasis on <span style="font-weight: bold;">experienced, </span>no first-timers) rehabbers who get the work done and sell them to single-family investors or home buyers? They're giving people and companies work and keeping homes from blight.

What do you think? Could this be a solution so that the whole bill isn't vetoed?<div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/bailout" rel="tag">bailout</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/rehabbers" rel="tag">rehabbers</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/lending" rel="tag">lending</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/economiccrisis" rel="tag">economiccrisis</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/housing" rel="tag">housing</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/lending%20practices" rel="tag">lending practices</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/mortgage%20meltdown" rel="tag">mortgage meltdown</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/veto%20threat" rel="tag">veto threat</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/Blue%20Dog%22%20democrats" rel="tag">Blue Dog" democrats</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/foreclosures" rel="tag">foreclosures</a></p><!-- technorati tags end -->]]>
        
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    <title>WANT: Equity for Panama Senior Housing Development led by developer with a retirement community already built in country</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://esenai.com/blog/DealBake/2008/06/want_equity_for_panama_senior_housing_development_led_by_developer_with_a_retirement_community_already_built_in_country.html" />
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    <published>2008-06-11T03:16:40Z</published>
    <updated>2008-06-11T03:16:48Z</updated>
    
    <summary>call Marvin Corea at 202-241-0236 for details. Blogged with the Flock BrowserTags: panamareal estate, panama senior housing, panama real estate development, panama private equity, panama retirement community...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>call <a href="http://www.eMarv.com">Marvin Corea</a> at 202-241-0236 for details.<br />
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    <title>Insightful 3 question interview with the head of Institutional Real Estate, Inc., Geoffrey Dohrmann</title>
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    <published>2008-06-10T14:59:07Z</published>
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    <summary>I had the excellent opportunity to interview Geoffrey Dohrmann (bio), CEO and founder of Institutional Real Estate, Inc. (IREI) about what&apos;s &quot;in&quot; and what&apos;s &quot;out&quot; in institutional real estate, the next big thing in institutional real estate and what&apos;s new...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I had the excellent opportunity to interview <a href="#bio">Geoffrey Dohrmann</a> (<a href="#bio">bio</a>), CEO and founder of <a href="http://www.irei.com/web/do/pub/home">Institutional Real Estate, Inc. (IREI)</a> about <a href="#WhatsIn">what's "in" and what's "out" in institutional real estate</a>, the <a href="#NextBigThing">next big thing in institutional real estate</a> and <a href="#IREI">what's new with IREI</a>. Please read ahead and comment (comment love is always welcome)! I am sure you will find many golden nuggets of information that you can use in your business. BTW, make sure you also sign up for their <a href="http://www.irei.com/web/do/pub/publication/ireizine/subscribe?freeType=IREI%20Weekly&amp;id=700">free institutional real estate newsletter</a>.<a title="Insitutional Real Estate Inc logo.gif" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/70527133@N00/2567153709/"><br />
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<h3>What's "In" and what's "out" in the Institutional Real Estate investment markets?</h3><br />
As you can imagine, US tax-exempt investors (pensions, foundations, endowments) are very concerned today about where the markets are headed.</p>

<p>As of December of last year, more than $64 billion of new capital was earmarked for new investments, of which 21% was flagged for investments offshore and 48% was flagged for higher risk, higher return oriented strategies. &nbsp;</p>

<p>Much has changed in the capital markets since then, as contagion from the sub prime residential mortgage market meltdown of last summer continued to spread to other sectors of the capital markets.</p>

<p>Since mid December, for example, the stock market's dismal performance has driven the ratio of real estate investments as a percentage of total assets way up, creating a "denominator problem." Consequently, the gap between real estate target allocations and actual investments has narrowed considerably, reducing the amount of new capital available for investment.</p>

<p>Fears about an impending recession coupled with concerns about oil and commodity price-driven inflation also have been curbing investor appetites for all but the most successful US fund managers' offerings. Investors are particularly leery about core-oriented investment funds. Exit queues appear to be developing in many of the larger open-end funds for the first time in many years -- a clear sign that investors believe that these funds may be over valued in light of current market conditions.</p>

<p>Investor staff resources also are stretched, leading most investors to attempt to consolidate their stables of managers. A year ago, just about any one who could fog a mirror could attract capital to even first time fund offerings. Not anymore. Few if any first time fund offerings will be attracting new capital in today's climate, unless they can demonstrate convincingly how their offerings can add value to the existing portfolio.</p>

<p>In addition, fears that US property market cap rates could rise by as much as 100 to 150 basis points or more effectively have frozen investment allocations to most U.S.-based funds.&nbsp; For those investors who still are committing new capital, most of that capital now is going to niche oriented investment opportunities that investors believe may be somewhat resistant to upward cap rate pressure, and/or that appear to them to be relatively inflation sensitive,&nbsp; recession proof, or both.</p>

<p>Offshore investment opportunities, considered to be less impacted by economic events in the US&nbsp; also continue to attract new capital - at least for now, they do.</p>

<p>With the CMBS market shut down and some portfolio lenders already tapped out, the more leveraged opportunistic funds will face significant challenges replicating past performance in today's markets.&nbsp; Those with short term debt coming due also will face refinancing challenges that will significantly undercut performance of recent vintage funds that have only started investing during the lower capitalization rate markets of 2005-2007.</p>

<p>A handful of investors have been responding to these concerns by asking investment managers to refrain from calling committed capital until the dust settles. While anecdotal at present, this could become a trend if enough investors become concerned enough about the prospects for investing committed capital prudently in this type of environment.</p>

<p>The bottom line is this:&nbsp; to attract new capital commitments today, fund managers have to convince investors that the strategies they are proposing a) compliment rather than replicate other strategies already imbedded in the portfolio, and b) are supported by compelling arguments that convince investors the strategy actually can make money in an environment where cap rates are rising, attractively priced debt is scarce, the economy is sagging, and inflation looms.</p>

<p>For the time being, equity capital will be scarcer and more aggressively priced than it has been in the recent past. And with less equity and debt competing for deals in the markets, prices have no where to go but down, at least until the real estate capital market environment strengthens.</p>

<p><a name="NextBigThing"></a><br />
<h3>The next big thing</h3><br />
The next big thing could be the next shoe to drop, and that very well could be another spectacular failure of a venerable Wall Street Investment Banking House or one of the Agencies (whose balance sheets are in even worse shape than the investment banking houses).</p>

<p>Another potential shoe to drop could be a regulator-driven pullback of the banks and life companies - the last remaining providers of debt capital to the markets. So far, the regulators haven't stepped in, but there's no reason they won't. Word on the street is they will, and their actions could be just as restrictive as they were the last time the real estate capital markets collapsed in the early 1990s.</p>

<p>Meanwhile, <span style="font-weight: bold;">those who are sponsoring debt oriented offerings should continue to attract capital</span> [my emphasis], and until capital flows from more traditional sources improve, will continue to find themselves sitting in the catbird seat. </p>

<p>In the long run,&nbsp; the next really big thing will be the reconstruction of the commercial mortgage backed securities market. Don't expect a return to the same kind of multi-tranche structuring that characterized the last wave of securitization, however. Structures in the next wave will need to be more transparent than they have been in the past. But in order for a new regime to evolve, something will have to be done to restore credibility to the asset-backed securities rating process. And so far, no one has any clear ideas on how to accomplish that task.</p>

<p>Meanwhile, distress will spread to the commercial real estate markets as short term bullet loans come due and owners find out that their lenders, not they, will be determining value.&nbsp; Expect to see this start in the single family residential land market first. (The large pubic homebuilders already are selling off land holdings at deep discounts, while the banks are beginning to foreclose on the landholdings of smaller homebuilders. In the next several months, those lenders aggressively will start moving these REO assets&nbsp; off their books.</p>

<p>Lenders to troubled commercial property owners -- those with high loan to value short term loans in place&nbsp; that soon will be coming due -- also eventually will begin taking back the keys or foreclosing on those assets, and this also will be followed by wholesale REO sales.</p>

<p>These sales will accelerate portfolio write downs as the appraisal community picks up on a wave of new comparable sales data, further driving down returns and eventually discouraging the most bullish of real estate investors.</p>

<p>When investor sentiment starts to turn negative on a wholesale basis, that will be a signal that the worst is over and recovery finally is on the way.</p>

<p>The good news is this is nothing more than the cyclical turn in the road most of us have been anticipating for some time. As often happens, the trigger for this turn came from outside the industry when fundamentals at the time remained sound.&nbsp; Now that the economy is slowing and threatening (if not already in) a recession, those fundamentals already have begun to erode.&nbsp; At the very least, the deals underwritten to perfection over the last few years will be unable to achieve the proforma rent growth they needed in order to justify the underwriting. At worst, as these assets are<br />
marked to market, they'll start to drag down values for less aggressively underwritten holdings.</p>

<p>The key for everyone to remember, however,&nbsp; is that a turn in the road doesn't necessarily mean the end of the road, so long as you make the turn. To prosper in these troubling times, it will be critical to recognize that opportunity and risk sets have shifted, and strategies as well as tactics need to be adjusted accordingly.</p>

<p><a name="IREI"></a><br />
<h3>What is IREI up to these days?</h3><br />
Institutional Real Estate, Inc. is a publishing and consulting company exclusively focused on serving the information needs of the institutional real estate investment community. So we're monitoring the markets carefully and trying to help investors and their investment managers understand the meaning of events as they continue to unfold.</p>

<p>We also continue to follow with products and services where our constituents are leading. </p>

<p>Two years ago, we successfully launched a European edition of our flagship publication, The Institutional Real Estate Letter. We also launched several new conference initiatives (Visions, Insights and Perspectives, for pension funds and their advisors, Dealmakers, for real estate transactors, and <a href="http://www.regonline.com/Checkin.asp?EventId=190215">Institutional Investing in infrastructure</a>, a global conference for investors committing capital to infrastructure investment funds.</p>

<p>This year, we are in the process of expanding these offerings, and gearing up for the 2009 launch of our newest publication, The Institutional Real Estate Letter - Asia Pacific.</p>

<p><a name="bio"></a><br />
<h3>Biography</h3><br />
<a title="Geoffrey Dohrmann pic" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/70527133@N00/2567160099/"><br />
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</a>Geoffrey Dohrmann, CRE, is the founder, president and chief executive officer of Institutional Real Estate, Inc., a global publishing and consulting company headquartered in San Ramon, California. In this capacity, he also serves as the publisher of more than nine different award-winning real estate investment publications, and as the executive producer of all Institutional Real Estate Conference offerings.&nbsp; He also is a director of Lexington Corporate Properties Trust, a NYSE listed real estate investment trust that invests exclusively in triple net leased office and industrial property located in selected markets throughout the U.S.&nbsp; He also serves on the advisory boards of The American Real Estate Society and the Responsible Property Investment Center at Boston College.</p>

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Don't forget to comment! :)<div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/irei" rel="tag">irei</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/institutionalreal%20estate" rel="tag">institutionalreal estate</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/geoffrey%20dohrmann" rel="tag">geoffrey dohrmann</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/lexington%20corporate%20properties%20trust" rel="tag">lexington corporate properties trust</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/reo" rel="tag">reo</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/predictions" rel="tag">predictions</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/portfolio%20sales" rel="tag">portfolio sales</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/wholesale" rel="tag">wholesale</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/cap%20rates" rel="tag">cap rates</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/denominator%20problem" rel="tag">denominator problem</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/recession" rel="tag">recession</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/oil%20and%20commodity-driven%20inflation" rel="tag">oil and commodity-driven inflation</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/sub%20prime" rel="tag">sub prime</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/CMBS" rel="tag">CMBS</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/scarce%20debt" rel="tag">scarce debt</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/complimenting%20strategies" rel="tag">complimenting strategies</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/equity%20capital" rel="tag">equity capital</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/wall%20street%20investment%20banking%20house%20failure" rel="tag">wall street investment banking house failure</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/debt-oriented%20offerings" rel="tag">debt-oriented offerings</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/foreclosure" rel="tag">foreclosure</a></p><!-- technorati tags end --></p>]]>
        
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    <title>Cisco On-Stage TelePresence Holographic Video Conferencing - too awesome, I want one!</title>
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    <published>2008-06-05T04:15:14Z</published>
    <updated>2008-06-05T04:15:32Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Cisco On-Stage TelePresence Holographic Video Conferencing First saw this on Guy Kawasaki&apos;s blog... I can&apos;t wait till this technology becomes more available to everyone. Can you imagine the implications? This would be the next best thing to teleporting. No driving, no flying, but you still get to see and here people in a more real way (unlike regular video). If prices come down to reasonable prices (maybe the price of high-end phones), do you think this will gain popularity?Blogged with the Flock BrowserTags: telepresence, holographicvideo conferencing, guy kawasaki, teleporting, cisco, carbon footprint, meetings, virtual meeting...</summary>
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First saw this on Guy Kawasaki's blog...

I can't wait till this technology becomes more available to everyone. Can you imagine the implications? This would be the next best thing to teleporting. No driving, no flying, but you still get to see and here people in a more real way (unlike regular video). 

If prices come down to reasonable prices (maybe the price of high-end phones), do you think this will gain popularity?<div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/telepresence" rel="tag">telepresence</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/holographicvideo%20conferencing" rel="tag">holographicvideo conferencing</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/guy%20kawasaki" rel="tag">guy kawasaki</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/teleporting" rel="tag">teleporting</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/cisco" rel="tag">cisco</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/carbon%20footprint" rel="tag">carbon footprint</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/meetings" rel="tag">meetings</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/virtual%20meeting" rel="tag">virtual meeting</a></p><!-- technorati tags end -->]]>
        
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    <title>Chris Rasmussen - Intellipedia Superstar Interview</title>
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    <published>2008-06-03T19:34:33Z</published>
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    <summary> I had the great opportunity to speak with Chris Rasmussen, Social Software Knowledge Manager and Trainer, US Intelligence Community, or in other words, one of the pioneers of the Intellipedia and social media movement in the Intelligence Community and...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p> I had the great opportunity to speak with Chris Rasmussen, Social Software Knowledge Manager and Trainer, US Intelligence Community, or in other words, one of the pioneers of the Intellipedia and social media movement in the Intelligence Community and the United States government, in general. (His <a href="#bio">full bio</a> is below.)</p><p>We spoke about how he became involved with Intellipedia, the past, present and potential future of Intellipedia, virtual worlds, global collaboration, open source intelligence, mashups (can I call it "intellimashing" :) and purple intelligence. Don't know what purple intelligence is? Well, then you should listen below:
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<u>Chris Rasmussen Bio</u><br />
Mr. Chris Rasmussen is a social software knowledge manager and trainer within the US Intelligence Community (IC).&nbsp; Mr. Rasmussen believes that lightweight and inexpensive "social software" tools such as Intellipedia (wiki), blogs, tag|connect (social bookmarking service), widgets, mashups, etc. provide a transparent and effective way to exchange knowledge over the IC enterprise.&nbsp; These tools, in agency-neutral space, have considerable advantages over exceedingly complex databases and applications often with opaque data access layers isolated within agency footprints.<p><a name="lw_1212416943_0"></a> Mr. Rasmussen is the founder and lead instructor of NGA Social Software 101, which teaches how to use Web 2.0 tools to create and aggregate transparent, agency-neutral, topical knowledge.&nbsp; The training plan for this course has been modeled by many law enforcement, military, and intelligence organizations.</p><p>In addition to social software, Mr. Rasmussen argues for the increased use of podcasts/vodcasts and videogame-based learning for knowledge transfer across the IC enterprise.&nbsp; Mr. Rasmussen is also an evangelist for the increased use of "open source intelligence"- that gleaned from public documents, databases, blogs, videos, radio broadcasts, newspapers and discussion boards-within the IC.</p><p>Mr. Rasmussen holds a BA in History and Masters in National Security Studies.&nbsp; He was selected as one the "Federal 100" by Federal Computer Week in 2008.&nbsp; This award is giving to top executives from government, industry and academia that had the greatest impact on the government information systems community.</p><p><br />
</p><p>A special thanks to <a href="http://www.nga.mil/">NGA Public Affairs Office</a> for putting this interview together.<br />
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</p><p>By the way, comments and questions are my new best friends, so please post any comments you may have. Thanks for adding a new friend! :)</p><div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/chrisrasmussen" rel="tag">chrisrasmussen</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/intellipedia" rel="tag">intellipedia</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/nga" rel="tag">nga</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/interview" rel="tag">interview</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/intelligence%20community" rel="tag">intelligence community</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/purple%20intelligence" rel="tag">purple intelligence</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/intellimashing" rel="tag">intellimashing</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/mashups" rel="tag">mashups</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/social%20media" rel="tag">social media</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/collaboration" rel="tag">collaboration</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/information%20sharing" rel="tag">information sharing</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/virtual%20worlds" rel="tag">virtual worlds</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/second%20life" rel="tag">second life</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/ivideo" rel="tag">ivideo</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/tagconnect" rel="tag">tagconnect</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/social%20software" rel="tag">social software</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/wikipedia" rel="tag">wikipedia</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/open%20source%20intelligence" rel="tag">open source intelligence</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/osint" rel="tag">osint</a></p><!-- technorati tags end --></p>]]>
        
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    <title>New York City Distressed Real Estate Fund - sponsor owns almost 1M square feet in NYC</title>
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    <published>2008-05-23T09:02:07Z</published>
    <updated>2008-06-11T03:12:09Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Call for details: 202-241-0236 Blogged with the Flock BrowserTags: realestate private equity, distressed real estate fund, nyc, new york city, opportunistic, distressed real estate, fundraising, multi-family...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Call for details: 202-241-0236<br />
   <div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/realestate%20private%20equity" rel="tag">realestate private equity</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/distressed%20real%20estate%20fund" rel="tag">distressed real estate fund</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/nyc" rel="tag">nyc</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/new%20york%20city" rel="tag">new york city</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/opportunistic" rel="tag">opportunistic</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/distressed%20real%20estate" rel="tag">distressed real estate</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/fundraising" rel="tag">fundraising</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/multi-family" rel="tag">multi-family</a></p><!-- technorati tags end --></p>]]>
        
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    <title>The Perfect Presenter - Q&amp;A with jpblogger or Twitterviewing</title>
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    <published>2008-05-19T21:38:37Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-20T14:24:30Z</updated>
    
    <summary><![CDATA[I had the opportunity to meet JP Campbell (better known as jpblogger on Twitter) and after following him for a few days, came across the tweet below which intrigued me: jpblogger: Saw an amazing presentation this afternoon. You have to like it when the right products and the perfect presenter come together. so I came back and tweeplied (i.e. replied via Twitter) &amp; we had the following conversation (thanks summize!) : &nbsp; eMarv: @jpblogger what do u think makes the perfect presenter? 6 days ago · Reply · View Tweet jpblogger: @eMarv Communicates complicated material well, encourages questions/participation yet still...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<div class="msg">I had the opportunity to meet JP Campbell (better known as <a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger');" target="_blank">jpblogger</a> on Twitter) and after following him for a few days, came across the tweet below which intrigued me:

<div style="margin-left: 40px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" target="_blank">jpblogger</a>: <span id="msgtxt809610318" class="msgtxt en">Saw an amazing presentation this afternoon. You have to like it when the right products and the perfect <b>presenter</b> come together.</span>
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so I came back and tweeplied (i.e. replied via Twitter) &amp; we had the following conversation (thanks <a href="http://summize.com/search?q=to%3Ajpblogger+from%3AeMarv">summize</a>!) :
</span><a class="litnv" href="http://summize.com/search?q=to%3Ajpblogger+from%3AeMarv#" onclick="new Ajax.Updater('thr809816297', '/search/thread/809816297', {asynchronous:true, evalScripts:true, onComplete:function(request){Effect.toggle('thr809816297', 'blind',{duration:0.2}); Element.toggle( 'show_thr809816297'); Element.toggle( 'hide_thr809816297'); translateThread('thr809816297');}, parameters:'authenticity_token=' + encodeURIComponent('4e5a1c3dadcb538a09951cf05f6ba9e113026fa7')}); return false;"><span id="hide_thr809816297" style=""></span></a>                    <div id="thr809816297" class="thread" style="overflow: visible;"><ul class="thread"><li class="result nested inthread first">        <div class="info"> 	 		<a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/eMarv');" target="_blank"><img alt="Pic_normal" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/twitter_production/profile_images/48161722/pic_normal.jpg" />&nbsp; eMarv</a>: <span id="msgtxt809613676" class="msgtxt en"><a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger')" target="_blank">@jpblogger</a> what do u think makes the perfect presenter? </span>6 days ago ·        <a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=@eMarv" class="litnv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/reply/eMarv');" target="_blank">Reply</a>    · <a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv/statuses/809613676" class="lit" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/status/809613676');" target="_blank">View Tweet</a>          </div>      </li><li class="result nested inthread">        <div class="info"> 	 		<a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger');" target="_blank"><img alt="Avatar_84056_f_bigger_normal" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/twitter_production/profile_images/54357256/avatar_84056_f_bigger_normal.jpg" /> jpblogger</a>: <span id="msgtxt809621297" class="msgtxt en"><a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/eMarv')" target="_blank">@eMarv</a> Communicates complicated material well, encourages questions/participation yet still leads, shows respect to everyone in the room ... </span>11 minutes later ·        <a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=@jpblogger" class="litnv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/reply/jpblogger');" target="_blank">Reply</a>    · <a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger/statuses/809621297" class="lit" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/status/809621297');" target="_blank">View Tweet</a>          </div>      </li><li class="result nested inthread">        <div class="info"> 	 		<a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/eMarv');" target="_blank"><img alt="Pic_normal" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/twitter_production/profile_images/48161722/pic_normal.jpg" /> eMarv</a>: <span id="msgtxt809638144" class="msgtxt en"><a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger')" target="_blank">@jpblogger</a> great definition of presenters! what do u think is the best way 2 present complex material? anecdotes? other? </span>25 minutes later ·        <a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=@eMarv" class="litnv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/reply/eMarv');" target="_blank">Reply</a>    · <a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv/statuses/809638144" class="lit" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/status/809638144');" target="_blank">View Tweet</a>          </div>      </li><li class="result nested inthread">        <div class="info"> 	 		<a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger');" target="_blank"><img alt="Avatar_84056_f_bigger_normal" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/twitter_production/profile_images/54357256/avatar_84056_f_bigger_normal.jpg" /> jpblogger</a>: <span id="msgtxt809659332" class="msgtxt en"><a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/eMarv')" target="_blank">@eMarv</a> Between calls, sorry! Anecdotes are very good also visualizations in words or graphics ... Back to calls ... </span>31 minutes later ·        <a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=@jpblogger" class="litnv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/reply/jpblogger');" target="_blank">Reply</a>    · <a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger/statuses/809659332" class="lit" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/status/809659332');" target="_blank">View Tweet</a>          </div>      </li><li class="result nested inthread featured">        <div class="info"> 	 		<a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/eMarv');" target="_blank"><img alt="Pic_normal" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/twitter_production/profile_images/48161722/pic_normal.jpg" /> eMarv</a>: <span id="msgtxt809816297" class="msgtxt en"><a href="http://twitter.com/jpblogger" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/to/jpblogger')" target="_blank">@jpblogger</a> re our mini exchange re presenters, do u mind if I ask u a couple more Qs to do a mini T interview to post to a blog w/props 2 u? </span>about 4 hours later ·        <a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=@eMarv" class="litnv" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/reply/eMarv');" target="_blank">Reply</a>    · <a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv/statuses/809816297" class="lit" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/exit/status/809816297');" target="_blank">View Tweet</a></div></li></ul></div><span id="msgtxt809610318" class="msgtxt en">And so we exchanged a couple of emails and low and behold we had a Q&amp;A session based on JP's experience with presenting and presenters:
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<p><span id="msgtxt809610318" class="msgtxt en"><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. Question:</span> Why do presenters present?
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Answer: </span>Presenters are doing their thing for a variety of reasons. For example, they may  want to: increase sales; raise funds; inspire action; or share knowledge.  Whatever the circumstance they should always have the same goal – to have the  audience leave with their message.  </div>

<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">2. Question: </span>What must a presenter do to prepare a perfect presentation?
</p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Answer:</span> The perfect presenter has his goal. He then must  know who his audience are. Are they familiar with the subject matter? Do they  need technical information? Is there the potential for social or cultural  misunderstanding that could distract from the message? </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Next, the perfect presenter should be aware of the  environment. Is the setting intimate? How much time does he have? Have potential  technical issues been taken into consideration? What has the audience heard from  others before he steps on the stage? I'll give an example on this last  point.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Several years ago I was asked to give a  presentation in the UK on corporate VPNs. I reviewed the program and what did I  notice? The speaker before me was <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/richhollis">Richard Hollis</a>. Richard is known across Europe  as a true leader in the field of computer security. He's also a terrific  speaker. What! I had to follow Richard Hollis? This was not going to be easy.  Fortunately I found his email address and immediately contacted him. What issues  I could avoid in my "talk" because they would already have been addressed by  him?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">The response I received was terrific and a great  learning experience for me. Richard sent me his slides. He also told me he  wanted those gathered to have a general understanding of security threats and  their personal responsibilities. I modified my presentation to take off from  where Richard concluded. I did not bore the audience with duplicate information  and I had more time to give to other issues. In the end, I think we delivered  not two separate talks but a rather good "one two" information punch.</p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">3. Question:</span> How do perfect presenters present?
 </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Answer:</span> With basic background done, it's time for the  actual presentation. The best presenters I have seen immediately establish their  presence. They may introduce their authority or expertise on their subject but  they never give the impression that they're special. Rather they try to convey  that they are where they are because that's where their interests and  experiences have brought them. Then speaker and the audience are together at  that moment, with their own backgrounds, because that's where life has brought  them. This also establishes a mutual respect. Immediately there is something in  common. </p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">As the perfect presenter moves through his agenda  he will illustrate his ideas with words and/or graphics. I remember being  concerned when I heard a certain fellow say he was going to explain "open  source" geospatial information. The audience was a well educated group using  diverse software packages but they were management not "techies". He asked to  see who in the group owned a car or took public transportation? The vast  majority raised their hands. "Imagine your software brand is like a car. Well,  I'm not here to tell you that you have to buy a Ford or an Audi. Keep the car  you like. Open source is like a fuel that can power all of you no matter what  vehicle you have." He now had these managers' interest. They wouldn't have to  change the familiar. The presenter then began to introduce them to more in-depth  information.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">4. Who are some perfect presenters?</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Answer: </span>Perfect presenters are out there. <a href="http://www.sirkenrobinson.com/">Sir Ken Robinson</a>  uses excellent graphics with great stories to speak to the subjects of education  and creativity<span>. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rom%C3%A9o_Dallaire">Lieutenant-General Roméo Alain Dallaire</a>, portrayed in film  and documentary, commanded the ill-fated UN mission to Rawanda that saw the  slaughter of thousands. He has paid a personal price for this experience but  inspires audiences none-the-less. Finally, I would add <a href="http://www.rayzahab.com/">Ray Zahab</a>. He has run the  Sahara (documented by Matt Damon). Ray has the ability to inspire people where  they are and he does it with a sense of humour and honesty. </span></p>
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    <title>Value of answering questions: Just met Pratt Farmer &amp; Chatham Holdings &amp; already have a good feeling about them</title>
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    <published>2008-05-16T16:07:27Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-16T16:07:40Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Family Approved - Chatham Holdings I recently met Pratt Farmer through LinkedIn because he answered my question about building a real estate development team in Panama. His answer: Marvin, I would perform my due diligence by searching for the one individual who seemed to be the most connected person in the area real estate development. Look for someone who has &quot;done it&quot; rather than the guy who has always wanted to. Commercial brokers, general contractors and architects are usually great resources for identifying the right individual. You will most likely find that one or two names pop up with most...</summary>
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I recently met <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/prattfarmer">Pratt Farmer</a> through LinkedIn because he answered my <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/answers/administration/commercial-real-estate/ADM_CRE/231899-1995936">question about building a real estate development team in Panama</a>. His answer:

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          Marvin,


I would perform my due diligence by searching for the one individual
who seemed to be the most connected person in the area real estate
development. Look for someone who has "done it" rather than the guy who
has always wanted to. Commercial brokers, general contractors and
architects are usually great resources for identifying the right
individual. You will most likely find that one or two names pop up with
most conversations. Good luck.

</div>&nbsp;Great insight! It make perfect sense.

I also took a look at his profile &amp; saw he had a good recommendation (12) to connection (55) ratio. (Normally a good sign.) I then visited his <a href="http://www.chathamlegacy.com/family/chathamholdings.asp">company's site</a> and must say that if I am ever in the market for property in northern Atlanta, I'll know who to call.

So what is the value of answering questions? Have you considering answering questions, but haven't? Why not?<div class="flockcredit" style="text-align: right; color: #CCC; font-size: x-small;">Blogged with the <a href="http://www.flock.com/blogged-with-flock" style="color: #999; font-weight: bold;" target="_new" title="Flock Browser">Flock Browser</a></div><!-- technorati tags begin --><p style="font-size:10px;text-align:right;">Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/chatham" rel="tag">chatham</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/pratt%20farmer" rel="tag">pratt farmer</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20social%20networking" rel="tag"> social networking</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20linkedin" rel="tag"> linkedin</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20answers" rel="tag"> answers</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20panama%20real%20estate%20development" rel="tag"> panama real estate development</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20atlanta%20builder" rel="tag"> atlanta builder</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20questions" rel="tag"> questions</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/%20networking" rel="tag"> networking</a></p><!-- technorati tags end -->]]>
        
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    <published>2008-05-15T00:33:48Z</published>
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    <summary> Home Description (tags: network-company packaging_company)...</summary>
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    <title>How to argue with your wife...count to 7</title>
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    <published>2008-05-14T17:23:56Z</published>
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    <summary>so that you both win! Here&apos;s the 7 things (if you&apos;ve only got 10 seconds to read): Listen Be SilentRepeat what she said Listen carefully (yes, again) Don&apos;t overreactBe considerate Live and let go! And the expanded version for those that just want to visit for a couple of minutes longer: Listen - Yes, I&apos;m sure you&apos;ve all heard it before, but one of the primary keys (reminds me of databases) to any successful marriage is listening! Look at her so that she knows you&apos;re paying attention. Don&apos;t jump the gun to quickly and make sure that you are not...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>so that you both win!</p>

<p>Here's the 7 things (if you've only got 10 seconds to read): <img src="http://static.flickr.com/3257/2491959095_c51c0ca336_d.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right;" title="Dr Seuss Arguing Pic" alt="Don't Argue TOO much or if you do, resolve arguments quickly" /></p>

<ol style="font-weight: bold;"><li>Listen
</li><li>Be Silent</li><li>Repeat what she said
</li><li>Listen carefully (yes, again)
</li><li>Don't overreact</li><li>Be considerate
</li><li>Live and let go!
</li></ol>   And the expanded version for those that just want to visit for a couple of minutes longer:
<ol style="font-weight: bold;"><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Listen </span>- Yes, I'm sure you've all heard it before, but one of the primary keys (reminds me of databases) to any successful marriage is listening! Look at her so that she knows you're paying attention. Don't jump the gun to quickly and make sure that you are not just waiting for your turn to argue. So in order to do this, you must...
  </li><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be Silent</span> - Don't interrupt! Let her finish her thoughts even if you are 100% sure she is wrong. (And even if she is wrong, you really don't want to throw it in her face. more later) This one really goes hand in hand with the listening, if you are trying to speak and not being silent, then you are not listening! Bite your tongue, hold your breath, clear your and understand what she is saying by...
</li><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Repeat(ing) what she said</span> - Yes, scientists have proved it in countless studies: Regurgitating is essential to understanding. By hearing yourself repeating what your wife just said you gain a better understanding of what she said and clarify anything you didn't understand. Once you finish regurgitating...
  </li><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Listen carefully (yes, again)</span> - You will earn more respect from your wife and she will probably be more receptive to your thoughts just because of the fact that you were listening. Especially if you are usually hardheaded and don't normally pay attention. She'll think: "Wow, he actually paid attention to what I said, maybe I should listen, too." Remember, don't be stubborn and ...
  </li><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Don't overreact</span> - It doesn't matter if she is completely wrong. Let her have her say. Maybe she just needs to vent a little or just wants to let out some frustration. Let her! Who knows, maybe she'll resolve the "argument" herself after she calms down and notices that you are actually listening. That's part of your duties as a REAL partner. You hear each other out and help each other. So guys, please...
</li><li style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be considerate </span>- You are considerate when you do all of the above and when you help her understand (that you are always right, just joking! :) that you are willing to resolve any issues that you may have. Also, let your wife save face if she is wrong. It's not a competition. It's a partnership! (If it isn't...well, I won't go there...) You are in it for the long haul so make sure you...
  </li><li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Live and let go! </span>- as much as humanly possible! And if you for some reason "can't" (which is a bad word for me) come to an agreement, then agree to disagree.
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There are some other things you can do especially if your wife is arguing or mad at you over something small or silly. Make her laugh! She'll often realize how silly the argument was and get over it. One way to do this is to use your kids, especially if you have little ones. For example, my 5 year old girl, Genesis, has gotten into the habit of jumping on me and going crazy when she or my wife yells: "ATTACK!" My wife always cracks up when Gen does that. (So Gen is my secret weapon of sorts, so don't tell my wife. Shhh! I've got some other ones, but they are too secret to post for now, maybe later.)

<p>BTW, if anyone else besides husbands reads this (yes, I'm talking to you, wife of husband), you can apply the 7 steps to arguing yourself. Come on, you know you want to! :)</p>

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<a href="http://twitter.com/eMarv">twitter</a> ya later and now back to <a href="http://www.eMarv.com/">work</a>...</p>

<p>PS If my blog does not let you comment because of some dumb error, please let me know: mcorea @ yahoo</p>

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    <title>links for 2008-05-03</title>
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    <published>2008-05-03T00:38:42Z</published>
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    <summary> Doing Business In China: News Information Podcasts Trade Shows Consulting China - About Us Doing Business in China: China Business Network for online business information podcasts news speakers consultants resources: videos conferences Internet business and manufacturers. (tags: china_business)...</summary>
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